I'm sorry especially about the savings. That's my concern, I have a lot of it plus my 401k ROTH etc. She didn't bring anything into the marriage nor did she ever contributed to the savings. If anything I always paid off her debt (old credit cards, student loans etc) as well as just giving her money every other month because she'd run out. I did it all because I thought of us as one but now that I look back I was a stupid fool...ugh! what an idiot I am.

B4SPD, at least you've made it to the other side and its done and over with. You're very level headed and a smart guy you'll be fine and with your dating class and some pomade you'll be all set to go fishing! lol

Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo
1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later)
2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY)
3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce)
4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>