Another round of thanks to all who took a moment to wish me a happy birthday! It meant a lot. Where is the party thread??????
I did some retail therapy of my own (WAW has been doing a lot that herself, but instead of getting angry I've come to see it as an attempt to hide the deep pain/depression she feels within), and had a great round of drinks with a friend who bucked up my spirits by sincerely saying that he thinks I'm playing this just right. Of course, I don't know how it will end, but I guess all any of us can do is take our best shot at taking care of ourselves and avoiding the many things that can make things worse. I'm working on myself, and she knows that. I'd like to believe I've surprised her even with what little she does know about my changes, but I guess only time will tell.
The world does lift us up when we need it. You're a wonderful group of people. Even amidst the pain, so many people have been so kind. I'm blessed.
