Let me see if I can guess, though. Fill in the blanks.
* More persuing behavior. (It's like, since I don't talk with him at all anymore, that it gets all bottled up now and I explode on him--it is all he has seen the last 4 times (more?) that I have seen him).
* He said that I don't take how he feels into account, only how I feel.
* He keeps asking me to let him go.
* He has said that he won't be talked into anything.
* I asked if he thought that part of this might be that he can't see a way back from where he has gone--he told me to stop trying to analyze him.
OK, what did I miss?
I posted the story above of the WAS getting the space they needed only through a D. I think I have done this, as well. Not sure if the 3 month cooling-off period will be enough for him to feel the time and space. But there is no other option at this point.
It took him only about a month to decide that he was really done with us (no feeling left at all, not in love) to falling in love with another woman.
I know that nothing can happen while he is with her. I don't think there is enough time here (by 11/19) for that sitch to blow up. So, looks like I will have to see how long I can hold on (hold on and let go at the same time? Let go to hang on? Let go to make room for the new? Urgh..).
*** On a side note, H told me that CW will be bringing her D to a different bus stop in the AM to avoid confrontation. I just said fine. I told him to tell CW that I am never speaking to her or her H again after what happened at court (IC is convinced the CW was the one who made this up to destroy even more). He said he handled it--how? He said he doesn't want to hear anything that CW's H says. Whatever, he won't be able to say anything because there won't even be the polite sentence or two anymore. Too bad, I know he is hurting, but I just can't risk it. One of them lied (who could it have been?), and it almost cost me the house if H didn't return to his word on the $$ issue. (She showed up in her giant truck to pick her D up, anyway, with all of her kids in the car (so I couldn't make a scene? who knows...). I pretended that she was completely invisible, talking to all of the other moms waiting, and even her other kids. She no longer exists in my world. Others expressed surprise that she could even show her face and act normal, with no remorse. I know the answer to that.
I hope H sees this some day. But I know it won't be from me pointing it out.
*** Always trying to end on a good note: Just got off the phone with my student teacher. She sounds very good, and I am excited to have another set of hands in the classroom, teaching a completely new level of learner :0)
I really do love my career. And I have missed all of my kids (over 600 of them!)
