Well, that's it. I'm divorced.

It was a much harder day than I thought it would be. It's up from here on out.

She went to court with the attys and I didn't. I didn't hear it was final until W called after noon to ask how to change some passwords.

So, that's done. What next?

Well, I signed up for an Internet dating class. I promised myself that I wouldn't do any dating until after I have the class, which is in December. So I'll get some time to grieve and unpack! And to get my budget (which is a complete crash-and-burn) into better shape. I went from $80k in saving to $5k, and the attys will get some of that.

That said, I have two women who are circling. One is not really serious, but is very nice. She's fun to flirt with. We might go out this weekend, just friends. The other is starting to get very serious about hooking up (if you know what I mean - and she is not subtle, she's really lathered up) but I doubt her husband would approve. I mentioned that and she said she didn't care. They are having marriage troubles. That's all I need, to be the OM! Ha!


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