What is tought to deal with is this balancing act between killing the R myself and wanting back in. A few days ago all she would have to do is look at me square and I would have been done, now I feel sort of vested in it again. I do have to say I didn't fall into the feelings as deep as before and I don't get as angry when she does something stupid. I guess the rollercoaster is sort of evening out.
This is hard for me also. It is all about being able to deal with the bad times and accepting and enjoying when times are good. When it is really difficult is when the downs really outweigh the good. I am really having difficulty with this now because there is so much down. Glad you are able to let it slide off your back when she annoys you.
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I went and made other plans for tonight, so I know she'll show up thinking she has killed my night but she will see all done up and ready to go.
Good job on the GAL front. I am sure she will be shocked when she sees you all set to go. Have fun tonight.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
