The wrong answer: Billy Idol. The right answer: Every loser who ever visited a disco in the 1980s and 1990s.
Actually, I was at my weekly appointment with my IC, talking about how easy it is to talk the talk versus walking the walk, of an Integrated Male. I related to him my response to Cobra's post earlier today.
His observation: "you are more astute and in tune to relationship dynamics than many psychologists I know. And you're certainly getting better at it than you were when I first met you."
So, there's that.
Now, as I get ready to spend 11-13 hours in the minivan with my W on Thursday (driving to Colorado), let's see how well I might be able to put some of this astute-ness into practice.
Some things I need to mention to my W: 1. I'm coming back Monday instead of Sunday from my Tucson trip. 2. I want to begin a sexual moratorium which will last for three months. 3. Every day, in every way, I'm getting better and better.
