Are we piecing yet?

[Have Faith]

Thanks Lwb. My H knows that we can't start healing until OW is out of the picture. He just isn't man enough to get her out yet.

journaling

Went to a gf house last night. We have a monthly meeting with a group of 7 ladies that I have worked with over the last 20 years. It is really fun and a good way to keep in contact. Got home around 9:30. No calls from H.

H sent me two e-mails about nothing today. He also asked me to meet him for lunch. I told him that I was busy for lunch today, but how about Thursday. He said that would be nice. Then about 1:15, he called me on the pretense of asking me what time our tee time was for the tournament we are playing on Saturday. He knows that it is too early to find this out.

I have a end of the year golf party tomorrow night. H usually comes by the house on Wednesday nights to do some work, while I'm golfing on my league. He knows that league is over. I have told him that I wouldn't be there and he says I thought your league was over. I say, yes it is. Let him think what ever he wants. I'm going to go home and get the ironing board out and leave it out with the iron so that it looks like I ran home really fast and pressed my clothes and had to leave in a hurry.

I don't know if he will be there when I get home or not. I hope not. I want him to go until Thursday before he sees me. That will be 3 full days with minimum contact. Then lunch on Thursday and no contact again until Saturday (which is also my B-day).

So I'm feeling ok. I think my H thinks that I'm spending time with my imaginary bf. I'm leaving on our annual golf vacation next Friday. H was suppose to try to get time off work to go, but with his new job was too afraid to ask. His loss as I will go without him and have a wonderful time golfing with my family. That means that I won't see him for a solid 7 days. From 9/7 through 9/14. I will not have my cell on either. I will check it for messages, but other then that, it will be turned off.

Everyone have a good evening.

Faith