Frustrated and More Saddened #3

[stewart10]

Thanks WAW:

Here comes my inner optimist, you know the one that doesn't hang out on my thread...

Lets look at the positives.

I don't think I have any other choice at this point. The way things are going right now, there is a ton of bad going on at this point. I need to look at the good things that are going on.

Your W agreed to go to counseling. Big HUGE step.

This I also agree is a good thing. The doctor we are going to see is pretty good. Don't know that he is going to be able to help us work this out but hopefully he can.

The two of decided someone will move (this can do wonders, really)

Yeah, I was more willing to move yesterday than I was today. Just seems to me like I would be giving up. If she wants the space, then she should move out. I don't want it to look like I am the one leaving.

you have been given the opportunity to explore other careers which you had been tossing around anyway. I really believe that everything happens for a reason. Take this time and focus on yourself, find a more fulfilling career path

That makes perfect sense to me. My Father said the same thing to me yesterday. I am going to start really looking for something that makes me happy to go to work everyday.

Lots of aliles to support you, even if all you do is come to vent, journal and complain...we all do it so don't apologize and all fo the subsequent feedback does help us all deal with our sitch in a better more productive way.

I will be doing this. It will be therapeutic for me to be able to rant on here. The next few weeks will be interesting to say the least. We shall see where it leads.


Stew