Well put, Theoden. Couldn't have said it any better. While at one time most of us believed otherwise, none of us are defined by the relationships we have with our spouses (or ex-spouses).
I am sorry for you, hope. Grieve. Cry. And bounce back, stronger than ever. This ordeal has given you a special set of eyes that will laser-focus on only the decent men.... then you will be able to choose the best of those.
