Hey Waterboy,

I was thinking the same thing as Cobra. I have actually guessed in a recent post that this might be a factor in my own situation. A couple of questions:

Why did you guys separate in the first place? Who was it that initiated the separation?

What would you do if your w did have an affair, or even a one night stand while you were separated? What does she think your reaction would be? Do you think that her anticipation of you reaction would keep her from owning up?

How did you two interact when you were separated?

I know these are not easy questions to contemplate, but you will need to think on them anyway.

Buckle up!


LM

Lucky me, I could have been someone else FOREVER! Whew, that was close!