Yoyo, Thank you so much. I don't think that I can be anyone's hero. I'm sitting here after just 5 years with a failed marriage. I can only hope that I live and learn and if I get married again, it will be to a man who loves and cherishes only me forever.
I don't have any plans to celebrate tonight...that's tomorrow night. Some girls from work are taking me out. I agree I think both XH and OW are both booby prizes maybe that is why they are still together. In my heart, I still believe they have a very hard, rough life ahead of them. Not only was he careless enough to get OW pregnant, but then he had to tell everyone his good news 2 weeks before the D was finalized...could he do anything more selfish than that. He told his mom...I hope xxxx doesn't find out. Yeah, does he think that is going to put me over the edge...I say it's your life and you are the one that just screwed it up a whole lot more...good luck.
