Frustrated and More Saddened #3

[waw1978]

Sorry that you are going through all of this at once. As bad as the experience was for you it sounds like there was progress made. Here comes my inner optimist, you know the one that doesn't hang out on my thread...

Lets look at the positives. Your W agreed to go to counseling. Big HUGE step. The two of decided someone will move (this can do wonders, really) and you have been given the opportunity to explore other careers which you had been tossing around anyway. I really believe that everything happens for a reason. Take this time and focus on yourself, find a more fulfilling career path and take the MC one sesh at time. You are in the right spot here Stewart. Lots of aliles to support you, even if all you do is come to vent, journal and complain...we all do it so don't apologize and all fo the subsequent feedback does help us all deal with our sitch in a better more productive way.