I am most interested in getting to know those of you who are investing time and energy into my situation.
I posted to your thread because I was interested. I'm interested in everything and everyone, and sometimes it really sucks. I over-extend myself.
What I will NOT do with you is get into a pissing match. It's a big waste of both our time. That doesn't mean you have to agree with everything I say (and I doubt you would anyway).
You've shown up here for help. It doesn't mean **I** am the one to help you, though I think I can offer an insight or two, here and there. It means... give some thought what is being presented to you, have the courage to see it from another angle, and if what I am saying to you doesn't ring your chimes... just tell me. It's okay. I'll go away. It is my hope that you find the help you seek. I may hinder that more than help it.
But please. Give me the benefit of the doubt... that even tho my methods, AT FIRST, may seem... OFF.... to you... I AM trying to help. Be a little patient.
Afterall, you ARE a highly intelligent woman, and that is readily apparent. But. I'm not pushing your intelligence buttons. I'm pushing your 'emotional' buttons. I probably hit two or three or four... buttons almost immediately... and you LET me. Me, a perfect stranger, you don't know... and are only conversing with over a BB.
That makes me wonder WHY such an intelligent woman would so readily give away her emotional power....
Just so you know... it only took two posts for me to COMPLETELY piss off Cobra... whew. And I mean... wow.
You can, btw, look up the history of anyone's post... I'm sorry, I've just been around here way too long for me to supply you with the links.
And... I just NOW get MoJo's Animal Farm analogy... and I love Mojo to pieces. We've met. Had lunch even. She's a hoot. You'll learn a lot from her... and we are nowhere near being as far off in our understanding as I once thought. **I** lacked understanding of her... now I get it. Hmph. Funny how that happens...
You'll be fine. Have a bottle of lovely wine on me... tho, sorry, you have to buy it.
