Thanks everyone for all your support. I'm doing good. XH hasn't shown up yet, so I have been going through some stuff, even wedding pictures and I have been able to keep it together pretty good. I really do believe that I've through the worse.

Chicki,
Yes, you are correct. XH and I had been fighting infertility problems for 3 years at the time he started the A. Like anyone in my sitch, I was always hoping that he and OW would split up soon after the D and she would be out of all of our lives forever. If she is pregnant, that is not going to happen. He will forever be tied to her. The good news is that we don't have any children, so I won't forever be tied to him; however, I will have to see him at the occasional family things...I am the godmother of his 6 year old nephew. You are probably right when you say that it is a blessing in disguise that we never got pregnant. If he's the type of man that has 2 A's and then gets the OW pregnant...he isn't the type of man that I want to be the father of my children. I guess he thought having a baby was the be all and end all to life...well, it looks like he's getting what he always wanted...it's too bad that it is not with the woman that he promised to love and cherish forever.

Last edited by hopeless11; 08/28/07 07:56 PM.
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