How was my post a highjack? (read: it wasn't) I'm not trying to stir [censored], I'm pointing out what I see as a fact. Prodigal was doing what she thought was best for her, not her husband or the marriage. To continue to speak with the OM after the affair ended is disgusting, to defend it even worse.
sop
Poor little angry man. A bible thumper judging others, now I have seen everything! Since you are such a stand up guy, who were you before signing up for a new screen name? Get to steppin' and bow out of the thread.
Singleagain-
I missed the part where I made any reference to the bible, can you please point it out to me? Also, if you are not in favor of judging others, why is it ok for you to judge me? I won't be bowing out of this thread because you suggested that I do so, but thank you for the suggestion.
For those that say that maintaining contact with OM was her way of 'dealing with' the end of the affair, I would say when one deliberately desecrates their marriage and hurts their spouse, it's outrageous to end the affair on their own terms.
