HI mkultra I know we are not suppose to talk about R but when we made the agreement to separate it was a trial basis and he said he wanted two weeks and the we could go to the fair together and come home and talk. At the time I had not read the book that is why I am panicking since I am not sure what to do on Sunday. Do I try to talk like agreed upon or do I just go with the flow? Should I wait for him to mention it. I was suppose to find a babysitter for our S as well so do I do that or not. I do not plan on begging or pleading. I have been writing a speech kind of at night of what I want to say if we do talk but I keep changing it.
How do you deal with talking about R when they bring it up.
