If I remeber correctly u mentioned you two tried to conceive and nothing. Try to look at this as a blessing in disguise. All As's have repercussions.
There is a reason why God did not allow for you two to convceive. Who knows what kind of a father he will be and YOU would of been stuck prolly bing a single mother. Give it time for them to reap what they sowed. Bringing a kid into this mess they created will only add to their crunbling down of a R.
I beleive God has someone better for you. Trust in HIM. You seem so strong and I am sure HE has given you that strength and will continue to do so.