Originally Posted By: DaveJ
If you continously look for proof, you'll end up being suspicious and anxious all the time. It's not good for you. In fact, your constant wanting reassurance will drive him away. Just have to make a choice that you will trust.


You hit it right on.....and yep....SD, Dave you are both so right, I just need to decide to trust him, and stop snooping and waiting for proof that I can trust him! This will not be easy, but I can do it...with friends like all of you!!!
And I have told him that I was going to "just start trusting him" so I need to keep up my end of the bargain too.

Thanks SD, yep...one thing at a time....Things just keep happening ever sense last summer...but I get my first paid vecation in a few weeks....time for me!!!!

love ya all
hugs
liz