Whilst I can understand your thoughts, it is true what ProdigalWife is saying. It is her way of dealing with the end of the A. Every call reenforced the fact that the OP was weak and manipulative.
Please don't judge her, she is giving all of us an extremely valuable insight into the other side of the A. We all never really know our partners, but we mislead ourselves on times to know what they are thinking.
I know that anything I say against the OP will not change anything, the changes must come from me. If my W in a future time still contacts the OP (they work in the same profession), then who am I to judge. I would love to tell her to cut off all contact, but I know enough about my W that this would be the wrong thing to do.
ProdigalWife, Thank you from all of us here. Your posts are helping to approach our partners in new ways and allow them to understand through our actions the right way to go.
