Chrome,
Hmm, I don't think it is all that different. When I first posted here, I got smacked right off the bat, basically telling me to look first at my contribution. To be honest, I wouldn't have made any progress at all without the occasional pointy-toed shoes up my behind. I can't think of a single instance where anybody here made a bit of progress without first recognizing that they had a active part in the way their R stood.