Also, keep in mind your husband may be getting a lot of flack from others about how he's treating you. He probably feels compelled to show you in a negative light to defind himself. He may not even really believe it, but he's trying to cover his butt and not look so bad. Eventually he'll see what he's doing. It will take time, but he will. I've seen this before....
Thanks ROOT. I know that is what he is trying to do, and yes I am holding my head up. I know that most everything in that letter is not true, and you can tell if you know anything about me that it is not. I am wondering if he ever showed OW the letter. The funny thing is in the letter he admits to his drinking, and lying but downplays it so much. I wonder what others think when they read it. I know everything he is doing right now is to justify his behaviour, and I try really hard to not let it get me down. Just the continuous lying and this person I thought I knew is just to much some days.
I dont know about the PM, never tried to PM someone before. I will look for your email, thanks.
