How long were you seperated with your H? Mine has almost had this A since October of last year i don't think it was PA till January . He would even come stay with me. He has been away for most of the year so she wasn't around him then just alot of phone calls. She might have went and visited him oncewhen he was a way. I keep thinking if he would spend alot of time with her then maybe he would see her in her real light that we all know what she is . Everyone tells me she is a b%$*h when she doesn't get her way. Even her mom told my sil. But she has him convinced that she is perfect and everyone is telling lies. The only thing I think is he has his own trailer and when he wants to something for him self he stays there. Your advice to Cali made alot of sense for me. Thanks
