Thanks everyone. I just got back from the hearing, and I can honestly say that after what I found out today, I am relieved that I am sitting here with a signed dissolution of marriage.

All went as well as it could have at the courthouse. H got there after me, so I was already sitting down. He just walked in and I had tears in my eyes, but I kept it together. He asked me to move over, so he could sit by me (I thought this was a little strange, but oh well). We chitchatted a little. His attorney was late, so our case was held up a while. Our part went really smooth. I didn't shed a tear and neither did he. I took about 5-10 minutes and it was all over. We walked out together because he parked right by me (strange again). I asked him if he was coming to get his stuff. He said yes, but he was going to run by his old work first. He said what are you going to do? I said go home. He said and do cartwheels. With tears in my eyes...I looked him straight in the eye and said you know this is never what I wanted. He turned away real quick, said he'd call, and jumped in his truck. He got on his cell right away.

On the way home, I called MIL to tell her that it was over and went fine and that I was ok. Everyone on here knows that my story is really crazy. The only thing that was missing to make it a real life soap opera was OW being pregnant...it's no longer missing. XH and OW are telling people that she is pregnant and due in March. I am having a hard time believing it given the OW's manipulating, but it very well could be true. All I can say is that I am glad that I am sitting here with signed D papers today and I do not feel an ounce of guilt about how I handled things or for getting 2/3 of our assets. I never thought God would bring an innocent little baby into this world from an adulterous affair. I am completely done with my XH. If he doesn't show this afternoon, I will pack his stuff up and give it to his family. I have no intentions of seeing him for a very long time. I did everything I could and I really am moving on to bigger and better things.

M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07
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