my h is the same way...I almost wish I could have a recording device with me, that I could replay after, to see if he really said what I heard, or if I was hearing what I wanted to.
obviously I'm floundering with a lot of stuff myself, but hey, I still think you should take care of that spark. and I love the idea of looking at someone whose marriage you admire and can model after.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"