I said that now he needs to prove that I can trust him....he agreed...
I have to disagree with your statement, Liz. He doesn't have to prove anything. In fact, he can't. Trust is a choice, and it's your responsibility.
I had to choose to trust that H was over LW. I had to choose to trust he's telling me the truth about being happy. It's my responsibility to bestow trust. There are no guarantees, that's why it's called Trust.
Sounds like you're caught up in a lot of stress. Take it one day at a time, just like when your sitch went bad. Don't think about everything you have to do, just think about the next thing you have to do, then the next, and the next.
And yeah, be good to yourself. Make your H paint your toenails or make dinner. Do something just for Liz, okay?
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
