I usually shy away from commenting on newcomers' threads for a couple of reasons: 1. So many times I have poured my heart out into them, and then the newcomer never shows up again. 2. It's hard enough keeping up with the posters I DO feel like I know. 3. Seems like many of them want the quick and easy solutions and are not willing to put in the hard work of looking INWARD.
I'm not necessarily speaking about you, loony...just a general observation.
