Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

I called my wife this morning just to she how she was doing since we haven't seen each other for a week.

She told me she is very happy without me and that things are not looking good for me, and that she is leaning towards divorce.

Of course when I heard this, panic set in and I just made things worse by asking her why and if there was anything I could do.

She says she is happy without me so why should she be with me. I don't understand this mentality. It's like me saying I was happy before I met you so why should I have married you.

I don't know what to do. She says she is going to call me back later to talk to me. I can't take the things she says to me. No matter how hard I try to ignore the hurtful things she says, I can't keep the panic from coming on.

I don't want to get a divorce but it seems like she is dead set on getting one. Maybe this is just how she feels at the moment and things will change, but I just can't she her changing.

What should I say to her?

Svejk