If it feels like you got hit with a 2x4, it could very well be that you did. That does not mean the board was swung in absence of empathy. Empathy may have held the hand at bay that was ready to shoot a gun.
I get it, and perhaps my use of the word empathy was not the best. I guess it is just me that my first reaction to a person who is doing something foolish is not to beat them over the head and tell them they are being foolish. Perhaps that is a "Nice Guy" failing of mine, and the source of many of my R problems.
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Throwing around 'judgments,' to me, seems much more hurtful than getting hit with a 2x4. But, that's just me.
I definitely agree that being judgemental is bad, but I'm not sure how you mean it in this context. Did you feel I was being judgemental in my previous post here?
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
