Oldtimer is right Gwen - he (and you) can't have it both ways

I am a nurturer by nature, its just what I do, however that has made my own R much more difficult to deal with. Lately, I have withdrawn and it is VERY tense around our house. I have been extremely outspoken the past few weeks and my H doesn't know where to go with it or how to take it. It makes for a very confused situation but that is in HIS head, not mine. I know exactly where I am going with this and he can choose as to whether or not he cares to come along for the ride.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
***************************
Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)