Sorry girls, but I surely don't pick up "assertive" from these posts. I pick up a spoiled little child that isn't getting her way and will do whatever it takes to get it

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I may say something on the order of, "this really sucks" "why can't we compromise" "maybe I should go get some somewhere else".


Putting out the threats will get you nowhere. As a matter of fact, keep pushing him and I can guarantee you HE will be the one that will probably go out and have the A, not you. Why? because he won't get the pressure from another woman that is there when HE wants her to be, not on her schedule.

Try going two years without sex and still remaining in a monogamous relationship sweetie - then maybe you will have something to really complain about.

Keep threatening him as to when YOU think YOU should do it and how often and you will find yourself living alone


Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)