ND...you must be real close to where I am. I live about 25 miles NE of the track...give or take...
Actually last night my family and I went to Solona Beach (Just south of the track) to a "Beach Blanket Movie Night"...it is a once a year event there where families come out and watch an movie out doors...it is usually an indy film about surfing/surfers...we couldn't find a place to sit but did get take out and parked across the street...Drive-in style....and watched the movie from the car...
Alas, today we had plans of surfing/Boogy boarding but we are having lightning, thunder, and rain right now....not good beach weather...but hey...we only get rain about 7 days a year, lol...so it seems...
Good positives on things w/ your W...just make sure to keep it all simple...give her space...let her lead...
That is where I struggle, letting her lead. I have a direction that I want to go to fix this and she seems to be in teh land of the lost.
She has initiated time for us to go out and do things. The racetrack was one and today we went to her friends apartment complex to play volleyball. She ended up doing most of the playing while I watched and spent time with our son. It was a good reversal of roles, she has done most of the observing while I played the sports. She enjoyed it, I got a bit bored. I did go with the mentality that she needed to play. we also went to dinner, just the three of us for the first time in I do not know how long. It was good, casual conversation. I am getting real antsy on flirting with her but I do not want to push things, and her to the OM. One day at a time...
We are actually up in Garden Grove, CA. Del Mar took forver to get to, the traffic down to SD on weekends is ridiculous...
Me=29 WAW=25 S=2 "I need a break" = 6/07 Filed = 12/07
As good as they can right now. Her family is figuring out things are not right between us and she is getting worried. They are all on my side with this as well which is making her paranoid.
Last edited by NoDirection; 08/28/0705:14 AM.
Me=29 WAW=25 S=2 "I need a break" = 6/07 Filed = 12/07
Oh man, the things we have in common. H's family has noticed something too, and I know he is worried. He is at fault for this drifting (well, the A, I'll claim my part that lead up to it). I know he is worried I am going to start talking. And yes, they will support me and be disappointed in him. His parents will be devastated.
One email from each of his three sisters (and one from sil) just making sure everything's ok, haven't seen you much, etc. Part of me wants to spill it and get it out.
