Have you read Divorce remedy? It takes a LOT of work and humility and you are pregnant. You need to spend this last trimester going to prenatal classes and Mama Yoga. Set up your support system. Maybe your way of GAL would be to focus on your own health and not on his job sitch.
The Light Your Fire CDs say that a man's ego is his job. He has most likely thought about his job decision 50-100 times and only wants to hear if you are supportive of his decisions. It may be time to just listen.
Having said that, he has left a pregnant woman with kids and he drinks and is abusive. Wow. Maybe we are both getting a lucky break. That may sound harsh, but who does he think he is? Kevin Federline? Charlie Sheen? Take care of yourself. You can be supportive without being codependent.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."