This is just my opinion:

It is not okay for a married person to date. Period, under any circumstances. It is not okay for the WAS and it is not okay for the LBS.

Just because the WAS does it, does not make it right for the LBS to do it.

Besides, why would you want to get one more person involved? Say you met someone that you cared about, then you also have his feelings to consider if your H ever does decide the marriage is important to him.


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011