Thanx Ponygirl. I will hang in there. I do not think I can go dark as we have a 3 year old that we have to share responsiblity for. I am hoping that is going to help us out but who knows. He tells me plenty of parents do it separately. However that was before when I was doing everything I should not have been doing. No matter what I said he would have a reason for it to not be so.
I am really hanging in there that things are going to work out but you never know.
As for the cards. I say you do not on your anniversary but you do send the late birthday card. Also if your anniversary is before his birthday and he sends you a card then in the birthday card you should say that you got his card and it reminded you of his birthday and sorry it is late.
I will keep you in my thoughts that he is going to make the right decision when he finally does and come home to you.
