HI I am new to this and was reading your post. It seems to me like you are a very strong person. You hang in there and keep doing what you have been doing. I am having a hard time doing everything that I am suppose to be doing but I am doing it with a smile on my face just for him.
I have that same question about what if I show no interest and move on won't that make it easier for him to leave or at least not feel bad about it. Won't he just think it is fine and we are done. I am very confused by all this. Do you really think it could be backfiring on you?