I struggled with this too, the pictures in your head are torture! You really have to learn not to focus on them, you can't because if will drive you insane! And time as they say heals all wounds. I just don't think about my h and ow, and I am suprised because h told me about 2 weeks ago that he had been with her again, and suprisingly it didn't bring the old pain back, I just seemed to have moved on, it doesn't sit in my head like it used to. So just give yourself time, and slowly you will notice a difference.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
