Hey you are you one brave woman or what??? you wrote and sent the letter and have confirmation from a very good source (your sister) that he made a mistake and is scared to make another one
how many times did we say that his life is not as good as you always were thinking it was
and what about you - your life is moving along nicely so why would you want to complicate it with him
one thing you said in your post on pro's he is part of your history look at the word you used 'history' past - gone - no longer
come on LH if the guy wants back and I am not saying anything about what you should do in that regard after all it is YOU that lives with the decision NOT me (or anyone else)
but if he wants back then he gotta make all the moves and put in 150% of the effort
I notice that you don't post often - now that is one sure fire key to you moving on with your life when you begin to post irregularly you don't need this anymore
good on ya girl
do you still have my email lets keep in touch via email and I will tell you about the guy I met today - he was soooo cute and works in my building
you have moved on so far from that woman I first met that broke a window
and I told you all along that if you played it right you could have the ow on the backfoot all the time
of course she is threatened by you - and telling him to get over it (your previous relationship etc etc) how stupid is she
see it really paid for you to ignore her and be wonderful and great looking when he was around - she sure is one hell of an insecure ow 'awwww poor thing' NOT
I am very proud of you - even of the fact you wrote a letter and gave it to him which let him see he could bring up trying to get back together if he wanted
if he takes you up on the offer you make sure that he proves what he says with actions he needs to boot ow out - live on his own be involved in his son's lives and 'date you'
and then you can decide if this is for you or not
and if he doesn't take you up on the open offer
then his loss and you know for sure he is having a $h1t time with ow and then you can go about your life and truly not think of him (them) ever again
you are without a doubt a beautiful, strong female who has most definately 'made it through'
