I guess part of me just wants to make her do something, but I realize that could make her do something I still don't want. Just getting nutty today I guess.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I know... I'm the same way. I just want my H to come home and everything to be okay. But I know he won't, and if he did, everything wouldn't be okay... It's the wants and what ifs and what could have been that's so hard...
Times up. She is in bed, and guess what? She already knows you love her. You have shown her unconditional love. Let her sleep and dream about you. It seems to me that a lot of divorces get busted when the LBS start getting mysterious and less available. It is a gamble though. I would prefer to wim someone the way you are, by being loving, honest and faithful. But psychology and fear work against us. Sleep on it, yet again, sleep on it!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
I guess I was fooling myself these last couple months. I need to stop lying to myself and realize it is over even if she has not filed. I will go out and make life happy and full in time. May even consider filing myself just to cover my rear end.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I'm so sorry!!! I'm glad you didn't call... that would have been horrible. At least she called and let you know, it would have been a shock to come upon that with no warning...
I would definately consider filing myself. It's always better to be the filer, you are in more of a position to ask for what you want with the kiddo...
