Scott, I truly don't understand any of it either. I'm so sorry that, even though your W seems to know deep down that what is happening is not the right thing, she is still going through with it. I don't know why "they" think that getting a D is just going to magically "fix" their lives and what is broken in it. If she would just acknowledge that you are what she needs and are so willing to "help" her and your family to heal, she would probably find her happiness that she's looking for, but unfortunately sometimes they don't figure this out until it's too late. Hang in there.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
