One, go find a family-friendly counselor. You wouldn't think that would be hard but we had a guy completely screw us over in January - I'd say he set us back 6 months and definitely contributed to our separation. If we had been going to the guy I've been seeing 100% we wouldn't have separated, or if we had, we both would have agreed to it (wouldn't have happened).
May I ask how the counselor set you back? What things did he do or didn't do that damaged your relationship? Would you consider him a pro-marriage counselor? Thanks.
Me 37; W 35; 2 dogs M 8 years; before that, dated 9 years Bomb #1: 10/13/2006 (day after my birthday) Bomb #2: 1/15/2007 I am finding strength I never thought I had
