need help piecing

[Jen_Jam]

Woah Liz ..... remember Piecing is s - l - o - w too, slower I think than DB'ing.

OK, you have snooped. Yes try not to. But what's the real issue here? You feel at present you cannot trust your H. So own that problem. it's yours, not his.

This is something you will have to work through, what you need from your H is the patience to let you go through it. You are both still struggling to build that great R, you are both going through this. If you two can agree that you are both working towards having a happy R and that you are not setting out to hurt each other deliberately then that really is great! The rest of it is as Rob says time and patience.

Good luck, you CAN get through this, but piecing is long. This time last year I was piecing, it's only just recently I've felt entirely comfortable with H. Chin up lass!