The OM makes them feel special, that brings guilt, well the guilt is smoothed over if we get angry with them, because then they have justification. Well why should you hang with their rope, let them hang themselves. Remove yourself from the sitch and they fall apart.
I like it Atlas -- makes sense to me, though I also agree with Heim that it doesn't fit all sitches. However, I do think it fits most or at least the majority.
You sound really good -- hope you continue to stay focused as W joins the picnic!
