ANNIVERSARY-If I were you, I would be gracious to accept anything he gives you for your anniversary. he may call you to feel you out, like the night before and act like he forgot. You know he knows! Ignore it until he makes the first move but be prepared either way. Do not plan anything or pursue. Don't start feeling sorry for him now. Think about you.
BIRTHDAY-If you do send a birthday card, remember to mention the past not the future. Just say you were glad he came into your life. That is the truth, right? If you are included in his Bday plans, act as if. Joke about good times without sentimentally reminiscing. If he acts like he wants to be with his new or transitional friends, don't take it personally. He feels so low about himself and he probably is so self centered that he assumes you don't want to be with him. Don't pursue it or act left out.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
