Cali, I'm so sorry that he was so disrespectful of your feelings. You are so right about not knowing the person they have become. I have a hard time when I see my H also. Thankfully, it's been about 3 weeks since I saw him. My girls are old enough to drive so they can go see him.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon