Nah, I'm not in shock about the D being finalized. I already ran the gantlet of feelings with it the day we attended the mandatory parenting and divorce classes.
You, ain't kidding this stuff is hard. For me it is right up there with the 3 weeks me and my family spent watching our dad die in the ICU unit from cancer and the months that followed his passing.
I like you am very confused also about my S. I am learing to try not to read to much into her words and actions and especially not to over analyze them.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”