B4SPD, we have no control over anyone else but ourselves. You did everything in your power to save this marriage, 3 years is a looong time and in that time if she still didn't turn around then you deserve a lot better. You deserve someone that appreciates your sacrifices. Just look out for yourself and the kids.
You're right, she wants this so bad then she should have it. Why does she need assurance from you? but then again after reading your posts for the last year or so and reading about her flip flopping all the time I'm not completely surprised.
I'll be following your foot-steps in the near future...she's pushing for the divorce.
Last edited by StupidRomeo2; 08/28/0704:28 AM.
Me: 32|W: 34|D: 3yo 1st bomb: Feb 2006 (left one day, came back a week later) 2nd bomb: Aug 2006 (moved out, ILYBNILWY) 3rd bomb: Apr 2007 (filed for divorce) 4th bomb: <her finger on the launch button>
