NO! You have to get through that funk. It could that time of the month and that is dangerous. Men have hormones too. You are being patient and kind and most important, sober. Avoid the negative spiral. That coming from me, the bitch who texted that the OW was a whore this morning. But still. We are living vicariously through your goals and achievements 789.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Nothing you have done is in vain or futile. it is a domino. You move a mountain so sh might notice a speck of dirt. C'mon, think of the payoff. You said it yourself, she may as well stayed home. If you can sense it, it is still a big possibility and you are sending her that vibe. I also felt it so many times when my H lingered and lingered but pride fear and hatred and the draw of a new R swooped him out the door. Keep home safe for her.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Nothing you have done is in vain or futile. It is a domino effect. You move a mountain so she might notice a speck of dirt. C'mon, think of the payoff. You said it yourself, she may as well have stayed home. If you can sense it, it is still a big possibility and you are sending her that vibe. I also felt it so many times when my H lingered and lingered but pride, fear, and hatred, and the draw of a new R swooped him out the door. Keep home safe for her.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
789, how ya doing this morning? ws thinking about you last night...hope you were able to stop the spiral. stay strong. punch a wall if you have to (thinking that works for guys more than chocolate?).
take care
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
I am pondering it, she goes to bed in about 45 minutes. I know myself, if I don't do it tonight, it could be months before I get the "wanting" to do this feeling again.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I can't advise you. I've tried that and gotten a good response... I've tried that and gotten nothing, and then spent the next week crying because I was so hurt by his reaction...
