Yes I wish that too. Right now she thinks she can get through things by dealing it on her own and seeing her therapist. I guess I'll give her some time.
I know my wife and I know she seriously need some space from me. I've always pushed and pursued. Didn't do the M any favors. And no she is not playing games so she can say I abandoned everyone.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.