My w has come back home after about 2 months of seperation. She has admitted to me that she may have come back for reasons other than me. She came back because of our D(10) and because she was homesick. She says she doesn't have any sexual feelings for me. She says she did not have an affair and I do believe her.
She asked if we could try to be together last night, but also asked if she wanted me to stop, would it hurt my feelings. I said that would be fine. So, we don't get very far into slight touching, and she begins crying and asked to stop. I of course stopped, but it didn't seem like she even tried. To me she seemed like a woman who has been sexually abused or raped. Neither of those have happened to her though.
Though she may have come back for reasons other than me, she is committed to working things out, and I am patient. Her feelings for me will come back, but I am very worried about this lack of any sexual desire. Not that I can't live without sex for a while longer, but rather why is she so afraid/ uneasy about even touching sexually?
