Thank you for the quick responses. Today he asks me if I would have the heart to try and work through this. Again, I never thought I would hear something like that out of my husband. Never thought we would be in such a role reversal. I've read about it, but couldn't see it happening to us.
So, as hard as it may be, I have agreed to try again. I think the reason I blew a gasket yesterday was because I had been stuffing the issues back down and waiting for the right opportunity to address them. I think I found it. All the advice I had gotten was to not address the issues too soon. But not addressing them was eating me up inside.
Thank you all again for your support.
Deb
Joy and Sorrow...when one sits alone with you at your board, remember the other is asleep upon your bed. ~Kahlil Gibran
Me: 46 H: 45 Married: 5.0+ years Bomb: May 17, 2006 0 living children, 2 babies in heaven 1 dog, 2 cats